THE BOTTOM LINE

the bottom line is that it’s not about the fact that you can’t stop thinking about him....

Sun, 05 Sep 2010 02:11:21 -0700

the bottom line is that it’s not about the fact that you can’t stop thinking about him. it’s not about the fact that you’re in love with him, that he’s everything you could ever want, that you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you would do anything for him. have done everything for him. it’s not about the fact that through years and years and other girls and other boys and good memories and bad memories and a complete lack of any progress at all, he’s still the one you would pick over anyone in this world. it’s not about all that. it’s about you, choosing to walk away anyway. to walk away from the constant, all-pervading feeling that you are not good enough for him - you know, the one that makes you want to sit in a corner and bang your head against the closet door for five hours. it’s about you, knowing that real love is not like this, that if was meant to happen by now it would have happened by now. it’s about you, knowing that if it’s meant to happen it will happen, but for now you are just going to live your life. you are going to stop fantasizing that you’ll run into him everywhere, and you are going to say whatever you want around him and not worry about what he thinks. you are going to step away, even though your heart is just about bursting with all the love he doesn’t want from you, you are going to step away. even if you cry yourself to sleep every night. i mean it. you will probably cry yourself to sleep every night. but you love him, and you would do anything for him, and your arms are open wide. it’s his that are shut tight, and there’s nothing you can do to change that. there are some people that you are going to need to learn to love from afar. love them, still. don’t stop loving them. but just know that they are not, NOT the one who is going to give you what you need right now. and who knows, maybe one day soon they’ll realize what you’ve known all along - that you are the same person as he is. but until then, you are going to be happy. you are going to love him and you are going to be happy.

pamela love

Sat, 04 Sep 2010 03:15:33 -0700

What fashion items can you not live without?
“My Levi’s jeans and Levi’s cutoff shorts, men’s button downs, hats, aviator sunglasses, wedge sandals, boots, and moccasins.”

the smokin hot danyelle. <3

Tue, 17 Aug 2010 20:42:00 -0700

the smokin hot danyelle. <3

fashiontoast

Tue, 17 Aug 2010 00:02:00 -0700

fashiontoast

Mon, 16 Aug 2010 19:02:00 -0700

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Sun, 25 Jul 2010 09:49:25 -0700

postsecret

Mon, 19 Jul 2010 19:57:00 -0700

postsecret

Le Love

Wed, 14 Jul 2010 23:19:00 -0700

Le Love

for who could ever learn to love a beast?

Tue, 13 Jul 2010 09:45:00 -0700

for who could ever learn to love a beast?

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Mon, 12 Jul 2010 18:25:42 -0700

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round two, round two, matter of fact it's closer to three.

Sat, 10 Jul 2010 13:41:10 -0700

“Being happy doesn’t make you normal — in fact, happy people are in the minority. It is easy...

Mon, 05 Jul 2010 13:51:51 -0700

“Being happy doesn’t make you normal — in fact, happy people are in the minority. It is easy to throw your hands up in frustration & be tragic & defeatist. It is also incredibly boring.”

"If we were still English we’d be drinking more and driving on the wrong side of the road - pretty..."

Sun, 04 Jul 2010 23:34:04 -0700

““If we were still English we’d be drinking more and driving on the wrong side of the road - pretty much what people do on the Fourth of July anyway.””

- Lorrie Moore, A Gate at the Stairs

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Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now on, I’ll be mad.

Fri, 02 Jul 2010 16:30:37 -0700

-Rumi

life is funny.

Fri, 02 Jul 2010 16:25:38 -0700

Hyperbole & A Half

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Fri, 02 Jul 2010 12:14:26 -0700

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Tue, 29 Jun 2010 13:27:25 -0700

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Mon, 28 Jun 2010 23:36:11 -0700

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Mon, 28 Jun 2010 23:34:13 -0700

i loveeeeee mileyyyyyyy

Mon, 28 Jun 2010 23:31:48 -0700

i loveeeeee mileyyyyyyy